Hello.
Let's say that you're a woman, married to a man and blessed with beautiful children. You lived happily with your family, with not a single thought of yours worrying about being cheated.
Let's say that one day, you caught your husband cheated on you, with his co-worker. Let's say that you and him weren't in a good terms for a really long time. Let's say that it affected the whole family. Let's say that after all the bad things happened, you decided to move on and live happily with him and your children, like you used to, before.
Days turn to weeks; you fought with him sometimes, but the amount is much lesser than your fights previously. Even if you don't trust him, you can stay happily with him, in the same room. No raising voices, no curses, no thoughts of separation.
But this one day, he bought a new smartphone. His previous one was badly damaged; so he used a regular handphone with no Whatsapp, no BBM, nothing. But as soon as he gets his new smartphone, he requires a passcode to unlock his phone.
You're a girl, you were torn before, you remembered the day you caught him red-handed. You tried so hard not to think negatively, or jump to conclusions easily. But you lost your trust on him. You're curious, you're dying want to know what's inside his phone.
He warned you beforehand, not to interfere with his private life. He drives you crazy. The first time in your life as his wife, you feel like you deserve to know his passcode but you never care about what he did with his phone before.
Trust is what we need in an relationship.
Once you lose it, you'll have a hard time in believing your partner.
One thing I want to ask; is it really necessary for the husband to lock his phone? I mean like, is he keeping something from her or does he lock his phone for security purposes? What if he meant it to be for security purposes but why he warned his wife to not try unlocking his phone and such? You want her trust yet you did this? And then you blame women for being over-sensitive and worrying about the smallest things?
I demand an answer.
