Habit is a behavioural action that is repeated regularly and tend to occur subconsciously. Old habits are hard to break and new habits are hard to form because the behavioural patterns we repeat are imprinted in our neural pathways. Habit is hard to get rid of but my question is, does habit has to live with you permanently?
Actually, the answer is no. You can choose to live without certain habits, which is also known as the bad habits. Habit is something that can be changed, even if it takes time. If you made a mistake, you can't simply say, "It's my habit; deal with it." That is rude, and when you're rude to other people, she or he will automatically mark you as a rude kid. In a different context, it just means that you're a lazy ass hole feeling you're living your life to the fullest.
I used to be one of the spoilt brat. I used to be rude, I used to talk with cussing words in between because I felt it was cool to do so. I was wrong, I know, and I realized how childish I was back in those days. Though some of those uncool behaviour became my bad habits now, I tried to tone them down. Not all people can handle cuss words. Not all people can handle people talking rudely even if they know that it's his (or her) bad habit.
It was hard, I admit. To try not to cuss is really hard. To try not to talk in foul language is actually a torture for this spoilt brat. You see, I am comfortable enough to be viewed as one of the 'bro' instead of 'sis' and with this dirty mouth of mine, the boys easily view me as one of the 'bro' as well. I used to say "Don't act like you're that good," when the boys asked me to stop cussing.
Now, I feel so embarrassed that I can die just by reminiscing how stupid I was back in those days.
I spontaneously chose this topic because of someone was rejecting me quite harshly when that individual can actually try to reject me with good words so no hard feelings going on and no misunderstanding occurs, right? ;) I was trying to be nice but yeah, this girl right here is not your ordinary type of girl. I am not the typical girl you see, not the typical girl you expect I will be.
Don't try to defend yourself and say that it is your habit to talk harshly. You can change but you chose to live with that habit. Don't give that excuse to my face, as I will never entertain that as a legit excuse to escape from your mistake.
Anyhow, guys, we should try to tone down our bad habits. Not only for girls, but boys as well. I know it's hard but let's try to be a better person from day to day :) Ending this entry with
HANDSOME LOGAN LERMAN SMIRKING TO I DON'T KNOW WHO! *SIGHING
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